Sunday Sept 6 was a very very long travel day. We woke up early to have time to drive to the Copenhagen airport, find something to eat and catch our first flight to Istanbul. We flew on Turkish Air which is a partner with United. So our status on United let us go to the Turkish lounge in the Copenhagen airport and scrounge breakfast for free. We were surprised to be fed a second breakfast on the flight to Istanbul. I couldn't eat much - but it made the time go faster. And again, I was reminded of a food problem I have in Turkey. All meals come with tomatoes in many dishes. You cannot escape tomatoes! We had a long layover in Istanbul - again able to visit another lounge for those hours. This is the first time we have flown domestically in Turkey - so we had a few surprises.
Since the flight we were to take from Istanbul to Alanya was late - and they only put up your gate number 20-30 minutes before your flight in a normal situation, They only assigned the gate a few minutes before we needed to catch a bus. This was the confusing part. In the lounge, most all flights had two gates listed - gate 1-7 and another like you would normally expect E34 or G22. It turns out there are special buses that take people who are in the lounge to their airplane. This was the nicest bus I have ever been on. Plush leather seats enough for lots to sit down. And there were only 4 of us on the bus. We got to the plane early and boarded. Everyone else has to go to the regular listed gate, then catch a crowed bus to the plane and board later.
It was already dark when we got to the airport. It was very small -1 luggage carousel. But our luggage did not show up. I was still waiting in line for the one toilet for women in the luggage area. We are then told that our luggage must have come early and we would have to go back into the terminal to find it. Someone has to hold the glass door open for the few of us whose luggage did not arrive. As normally you would not be allowed back into the terminal after you have been in the luggage area. Yes - there is our luggage -it has to go through customs before we can actually leave the airport. Our ATM Transfer driver is waiting and we have a swift journey to our Airbnb location. I can't get an idea of the area in the pitch blackness.
Our first stop after greeting our hosts is to the security office of the building complex. Here they take copies of your passports and take our fingerprints. Entrance into our building is by fingerprint only! It seems like most of the world is heading toward fingerprint as identification. The European Union insisted that we had to register for their "global entry" type of program. So we had to be photographed ad finger printed - index finger, 4 fingers, and then thumb. But we have not actually been able to use it. I have been photographed and fingerprinted to death on this trip!
Next we are guided to our 7th floor apartment. I take note of what stores - buildings are around us. It sort of feels like Hong Kong. There are outdoor escalators and elevators to take you to the different levels of buildings. And walkways across roads to get from one side of the road to the other. Our hosts seem in a hurry to leave (I think they are boyfriend/girlfriend), so we quickly ask questions about things in the apartment. Soon they leave.
We settle in, checking out the kitchen, the balcony and our rooms. It is late, but we are wired from a day of fighting off sleep - then trying to nap on the plane - but not being able to because it is so cramped. The funeral for my brother is at 5pm today Ohio time. I thought it was 11pm here - but no that is in Swedish time zone. Here it is at midnight. I am torn - If I stay up and watch it will I be able to sleep?
I decide to stay up and watch the funeral as it is streamed. Michael stays up in support. They have chosen a Unitarian minister as the officiant. There must have been a printed order of service as part of the service calls for the audience to reads lines together. There is no music. The minister reads the words Renee Michelle has written to describe her father's life. It is nice - soothing - not too emotional.
Then the minister announces it is time for the audience to participate. She starts it out by reading the eulogy I had sent to RM. Then invitees others to the stage. Gwen and Todd both have prepared stories to share. Two friends of Gerry share stories. The minister closes by saying she hopes many others will share stories during the reception and then it is over. I don't know if any other siblings showed up.
By then I am very tired. I read for 30 minutes and turn out the lights at 1:30am. A very long day!